Nap time has always been a struggle for my boys, and they don't sleep anywhere else but their cribs. Don't get me wrong...I'm very very grateful that they sleep through mostly a 12-hr night at a young age and still do. I get my fair shares of mid-night crying here and there, but there's nothing to complaint about. Nap time, however, it's an on-and-off battle. Some days are better than others. Sleeping during traveling is worst. I'll get to that later.
Several months ago, Preston and I hit a brick wall on how to get them to nap. A pediatrician friend from church, suggested that we try separating them during nap time. So we told the boys that if they couldn't nap in their room together, they would be separeted. Oh, how they hated that idea. We borrowed a playpen from another friend from church, and put it in our room. We usually didn't have to actually put one of them in the playpen. The thought of separation was usually enough to get them quiet for nap time, but occasionally, we did have to physically remove one of them to our room. Nap time had improved ever since.
Last week was the first week after we came back from the long road trip from Canada, and we had no problem sleeping (they're catching up on their sleep.) However, this week they took turn crying during nap time...every day. Well, the playpen was still fold up from the Toronto trip. Being the lazy parents that we were, we just told them that one of them would come to mommy's bed and nap with mommy if they couldn't be quiet and sleep. Well, that backfired... Wednesday, the boys decided they would just go straight to our bed for nap time. Uh...NO. So I put them down in their cribs, and...crying was what I got, lots of crying. Thankfully, it worked again the next day.
So back to our Canadia (what Preston called Canada) trip. It was awful the first two night this time around. The past two times we went up to Canada, we borrowed a playpen from Aunt Wandy's neighbor and one from Christina's cousin. This time, because we already borrowed one from a friend here, we just brought it up with us, and expected aunt Wandy could borrow her neighbor's one for us like we always had. Well, never assumed anything. Her neighbor's grandchild had grew out of it, and she gave the playpen away. Instead, we had a toddler mattress. Being the insecure little toddlers that my boys were, they refused to go to sleep. Finally by mid-night, they finally lied down with the condition that we left the light on. Whatever right? as long as they would sleep. Well, the light kept Elias up all night long. He woke up crying 3 times, and kept Preston up all night (thank God I'm not a light sleeper.) And they woke up at 6:30am. O_0
The second night, either of them would sleep on the mattress. After trying out every idea that we could think of, we desperately called up my cousin, Rocky, to see if Christina could borrow the playpen from her cousin. They dropped it off at around 11pm, and we were able to get both of them to sleep with the light off! Christina, you were the life saver!!! Thank you! oh, and thanks for changing their diapers that day :P Couldn't imagine Rocky on diaper duty??? It would be a nightmare...I think.
Well, the boys are pretty much at a point where they're too long for playpens. Next time we travel, which is up in the air now after this trip, is on late October. It's time to train them to sleep in beds/mattresses. But I'm not ready the sleepless nights that I know I'll get :P